"Our mission is to empower sensitive high achievers to break free from the past, find purpose, and cultivate true, lasting love."

Welcome to Life Design Blueprint


“Welcome to the world of LDB Narcissistic Relationship Empowerment, where our mission is to empower individuals to discover Unshakable Love and Unleashed Passion in their relationships, even when their partner is resistant to change!

Meet Alice and Doug, the visionary creators behind the YAUA™ Program. At the heart of our methodology is the belief that your past relationships with toxic people shouldn’t dictate your future success in love and life. We are revolutionizing the way relationships are nurtured and sustained.

Through strategic coaching and therapy, dynamic online programs, and captivating live events, Alice and Doug are transforming countless lives worldwide, working with high achieving sensitive strivers looking to have the same success in love that they have in their career. They’ve awakened people to the realization that the traditionally one sided demand-based, narcissistic relationship model is no longer effective in today’s world.

Under the guidance of YAUA™, everyday people are reignighting their spirit and achieving remarkable transformations, even in relationships that seemed beyond repair.

Hope has a new name, and it’s called The You Are Unstoppable Accelerator Program™.

Alice, brings a wealth of expertise and experience as a certified NLP Master, Trauma Informed High Performance Coach and International speaker. Doug is a best Selling Self Help Author, Hypno-Psychotherapist, Mindfulness Teacher and much more. 

With over two decades of shared experiences,Alice and Doug live and breathe the essence of unstoppable commitment towards striving for healthy, happy relationships every single day.

Join us on this transformative journey, where your relationships to others can find the love and passion they truly deserve. Together Let’s redefine how relationships should be!”

— meet the team


In the serene village of Hong-eun-dong, young Alice’s journey began when her father’s presence gradually faded from their lives, leaving a promise unfulfilled. Little did she know, this quiet village would become the starting point for a remarkable adventure.

As her world crumbled in the wake of her parents’ divorce and her father’s new life, Alice initially clung to the familiar, resisting the call to change that echoed in the distance.

But amid the chaos, her mother, pregnant with her brother Tim, became a guiding light in this turbulent time. Their unwavering determination to start anew in a small one-bedroom flat became a symbol of courage, a leap into the unknown.

Finding refuge in her grandmother’s house brought love and stability, marking their transition from the known to the unknown, as they forged ahead in their journey.

Facing the reality of their new life, Alice started walking to school alone at just five years old while her mother worked tirelessly. It was a test of resilience, a small step on the path ahead.

Yet, Alice’s world took a malevolent turn when her mother’s abusive boyfriend entered their lives. This sinister presence cast a shadow over her dreams, igniting nightmares that would change her forever.

Haunted by these visions, Alice made a solemn vow to protect her family, promising herself she would be strong, no matter what trials lay ahead.

With her mother’s courageous decision, the abusive relationship met its end, and they sought refuge at her grandmother’s house. It marked a rebirth of hope and safety, a fresh start.

Hope resurfaced when Alice’s mother met Brian, ushering a stepfather into her life. Alice, now ten, welcomed this new ally, though their journey would prove challenging.





Their transition to the UK introduced new trials—bullying at school, language barriers, and her stepfather’s struggle with alcohol. Resilience was their shared strength, tested like never before.

Through her teenage years, Alice’s inner transformation began, fueled by conflicts with her stepfather. She embraced change, learning to adapt to life’s challenges.

University brought a life-altering accident that shook Alice to her core, Alice suffered a back injury and was told she may never walk again, this diagnosis forced her to question her path to happiness. It was the catalyst for her inner transformation.

When Doug entered her life, their meeting became a turning point.

Alice’s relentless work ethic and unstoppable determination were fueled by her desire for a brighter future, a shared vision.

Though the honeymoon didn’t last depression and addiction loomed, Alice faced these challenges head-on.

Alice work ethic gave the keys to finacialy freedom as she excel at her corporate life.

Tough she felt unsatisfied and soon found herself being drawn into the world of self-development.

She worked with her brother Tim helping him to build a successful company in that space, before branching out and working with her husband to expand her mission.

Alice’s remarkable journey, filled with pain and unwavering determination, serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration. 

- Meet the team


Doug was born in Rochdale, Greater Manchester, to two loving parents. He developed a healthy attachment bond and enjoyed a mostly happy childhood, which even included a couple of years of school in New Zealand his early years were filled with innocence and exploration.

However, as he entered his early twenties, he became entangled with drugs, violence and the wrong crowd. Many of his friends succumbed to addiction, found themselves in prison, or tragically lost their lives due to drug overdoses and suicide.

Amidst this chaotic period, Doug’s life took a fateful turn when he met Alice. Together, they moved in with her stepfather, a deeply narcissistic individual. This experience became Doug’s first known encounter with the underlying effects of narcissistic abuse, leading to a cascade of depression, social anxiety, and severely low self-worth. Doug was struggling to get his career going and this combined experience marked the beginning of a dark period in Doug’s life.




In an attempt to cope, Doug turned to self-medication with drugs and alcohol, which only hid the abyss of despair that was lurking.

It wasn’t until the tragic loss of a close friend to suicide that Doug felt compelled to regain control of his life and to one day help others who were suffering.

Determined to honour his friend’s legacy, Doug embarked on a relentless quest for self-improvement.

He revisited his early passion for psychology, investing significant resources in personal development programs, seeking out mentors, and seizing every opportunity for growth.

Doug’s unwavering commitment eventually bore fruit. He confronted his anxiety and depression head-on, emerging as a prolific public speaker. He even conquered the fear of performing a stand-up comedy in a London Pub, a remarkable milestone in his journey.

As Doug shed the weight of past traumas and toxic limiting beliefs, he rediscovered the true purpose of life and sold the company that he built to pursue helping others full-time.

Simultaneously, he recognized the profound effects, past narcissistic abuse was having on Alice…

...the story continues

Alice, a highly successful high-performance life coach, had a thriving career, but her addiction to work was causing a strain on their relationship. Despite their love, their connection began to fade under the weight of Alice’s relentless dedication to her career.

As Alice’s work addiction deepened, their once-healthy relationship suffered. The warmth and closeness they had once shared turned distant and cold. Their days were marked by growing distance and heartache.

United by their shared commitment to their relationship and their desire to help others, Alice and Doug realized that they needed a change. They couldn’t ignore the growing rift in their love life any longer. They began to really explore how the past traumas, narcissistic family patterns, violence and bullying had led to a relationship on the brink of collapse.

This realization led to the birth of Life Design Blueprint—a vision they co-founded to help themselves and then to help others also achieving success in work but struggling in love.

Their journey from darkness to light mirrored their personal growth and resilience.

They personally navigated the challenges of past traumas, addiction, work-life balance, and the strain on their relationship.

Their story exemplifies the transformative power of healing and the resilience of the human spirit.

That’s the Life Design difference. 


For every program we offer, we're committed to making a positive impact beyond personal transformation. Through our partnership with the Buy One Give One (B1G1) charity initiative, every program purchase contributes to providing essential support to those in need. Specifically, we help feed children who are facing hunger and hardship. This means that not only are you investing in your own growth and well-being when you join our programs, but you're also extending a helping hand to those less fortunate. Together, we're making a difference in the lives of these children, one program at a time. Your journey to personal transformation is also a journey of giving and creating a better world for all.

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Discover Your Purpose Style for a More Meaningful Life

At Life Design Blueprint, we believe that understanding your purpose is the key to unlocking a more fulfilling and meaningful life. It’s not just about achieving success in your career; it’s about creating a life that aligns with your true calling and values. To help you embark on this transformative journey, we offer a free quiz that helps you discover your unique purpose style.

Why Purpose Matters

Your unique purpose is like the guiding thread that weaves through the fabric of your life. It illuminates your path, helping you make choices in life and love that resonate with your core values and aspirations. When you’re in alignment with your purpose, you’re less likely to fall into toxic relationship patterns. You become more discerning, set unstoppable boundaries and are better equipped to recognize and avoid unhealthy dynamics.

Understanding your purpose style is the first step towards breaking free from these patterns. It empowers you to make choices that nurture your well-being, attract positive relationships, and lead you towards a life filled with genuine meaning and happiness. Take our free purpose-style assessment today and start your journey towards a purpose-driven, fulfilling life while leaving toxic relationship patterns behind.

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